{"id":87,"date":"2017-08-25T18:36:36","date_gmt":"2017-08-25T18:36:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.phystopia.com\/?p=87"},"modified":"2017-08-25T18:41:28","modified_gmt":"2017-08-25T18:41:28","slug":"a-conversation-with-a-young-trper-about-oneitis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.phystopia.com\/index.php\/2017\/08\/25\/a-conversation-with-a-young-trper-about-oneitis\/","title":{"rendered":"A conversation with a young TRPer about oneitis"},"content":{"rendered":"
I figured it might be cool to save this. \u00a0Maybe I can extract some info from here an turn it into a good article.<\/div>\n
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The goal was to get his baseline proper. \u00a0I don’t think any girl is going to like a guy that doesn’t take care of himself. \u00a0Girls like guys that are tough of both body and mind, and this kid was trapped. \u00a0I think if he does all the shit I recommend he’ll become harder as a man and will eventually get his head out of his ass regarding females. \u00a0No respectable girl will bang him in his current condition, but I don’t think it will take long for him to break out of it. \u00a0I like to think of it like a maslow’s hierarchy of sexual interaction. \u00a0He can’t get better, until he ditches the oneitis. \u00a0It is a giant roadblack.<\/div>\n
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1:07 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>IT is very profitable but it is also a giant trap for dudes. It’s about as far from being a medieval warlord as you can get.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:07 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>so your masculinity dwindles down to an effiminate gay frog level.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:07 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>womz2004<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>the first thing u gotta do is stop being a cuck at work, start there and move to friends, then to females<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:07 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>taiino<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Nigga what @alpharabbit<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:07 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>\u2190<\/span> womz2004<\/span> (webchat@92.40.249.102.threembb.co.uk) was kicked by @<\/span>physt<\/span>: I’m talking here nigga damn<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:07 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>jotenko<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>lolol<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:08 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>alpharabbit<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>not fat, but girls who are curvy in the classical sense turn me on<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:08 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>Abattoir<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>lol <\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:08 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>penumbra<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>lol who was that guy, what shit advice<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:08 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Abattoir<\/span>: OK so the first thing we have to do is add some struggle into your life.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:08 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>alpharabbit<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>but like i said maybe its because i havent really had a taste of the GOOD shit yet<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:08 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>real men struggle, fake as weak bitches have pampered western IT lives.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:08 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Channel mode set to +m<\/b> by @<\/span>Q<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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1:08 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>Anteros<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>ok<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:08 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>anteros++<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:08 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>TRPbot<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>anteros’s karma is now 198<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:08 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/i>\u2192<\/span> womz2004<\/span> joined\u00a0\u00a0\u2022\u00a0\u00a0mode:<\/span> +<\/span>Abattoir<\/span> (voiced<\/span>)\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:09 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>flipping the switch of death<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:09 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/i>\u2194<\/span> taiino<\/span> nipped out\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:09 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>Anteros<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>only voiced\/op users can speak now <\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:09 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>+<\/span>Abattoir<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>I don`t understand what that means…<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:09 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>Anteros<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>we’ll remove this shortly<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:09 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Abattoir<\/span>: So right now do you do any sort of physical activity?<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:10 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>+<\/span>Abattoir<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>I go for walks sometimes but no sports or gym or anything like that<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:11 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>ok so all the recommendations I’m going to make to you are a part of changing your daily “system”. <\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:11 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>and step 1 is we need to up your physical activity<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:11 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>EVERY DAY<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:11 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>and I recommend you go to the gym. <\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:11 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>This is not to build muscle or anything. It’s to struggle and suffer<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:11 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>\u2192<\/span> eroksan<\/span> joined (~er0ks4n@eroksan.users.quakenet.org)<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:12 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>So after we are done talking, locate a gym close to you and get a membership. <\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:12 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>I don’t care what program you do, as long as it is every single day. <\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:12 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>+<\/span>Abattoir<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Yeah that makes sense. WHat doesn`t kill you makes you stronger etc right?<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:12 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>ok step 2. let’s talk about your fatness levels. How fat are you?<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:13 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>+<\/span>Abattoir<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>quite skinny actually, believe it or not<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:13 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>I do believe it, that’s great.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:14 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>+<\/span>Abattoir<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>^_^<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:14 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>But I want you to change your diet so that you are experiencing more hunger. I want you to eat one meal per day, at approximately the same time each day.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:14 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>weather that is lunch or dinner depends on your career actually.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:14 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>+<\/span>Abattoir<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>How big a meal?<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:14 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>If it is important to have lunch with your coworkers as part of job advancement then do lunch. If it isn’t then do dinner.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:15 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>just 1 normal sized meal like you would normally have. Do not concern yourself with carbs or calories or anything. And when you are full, stop eating.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:15 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>don’t seek out any specific foods. Just eat what a normal human would.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:15 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>+<\/span>Abattoir<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Well, okay. How does all this suffering help me get better with women though?<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:16 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>first learn stand, then learn fly <\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:17 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>ok so regarding the gym and your diet. Those 2 must be adhered to every single day, period. No “cheat days” or any bullshit like that. No “rest days” either. Every single day you spend at least 1 hour at the gym.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:17 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>I don’t care what you do, but the harder it is, the better it will be for you. Never miss a day<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:17 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Channel mode set to +c<\/b> by @<\/span>Q<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:17 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>ok next. How much sleep do you get each night?<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:18 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>+<\/span>Abattoir<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>5 hours, give or take.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:18 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/i>\u2194<\/span> virt<\/span> popped in\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:19 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>ok I want you to get the same amount of sleep each night. Pick a bed time and stick to it like clockwork. <\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:19 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>no matter what, I want you in bed with your eyes closed at the same time each night<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:19 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>you pick the time.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:20 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>+<\/span>Abattoir<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Well okay. I find it kind of difficult to fall asleep a lot of the time bt I`ll try!<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:20 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Let’s talk about a couple tips for falling asleep. <\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:20 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>physt<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>sleepgainz?<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
1:20 PM<\/span><\/span>\u00a0<\/span><<\/span>@<\/span>TRPbot<\/span>><\/span>\u00a0<\/span>sleepgainz: http:\/\/pastebin.com\/AQMqXSN6<\/a>\u00a0by cg–